The short answer

A criminal investigation seeks to hold an offender accountable; a civil claim seeks compensation and may be brought against others, including a platform. They run separately. Limitation periods for childhood sexual abuse claims vary more between states than almost any other area of law, so that question deserves an early answer from a lawyer in your state.

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Two tracks, different purposes

A criminal case is brought by the government against an offender and can result in punishment. A civil claim is brought by or on behalf of the person harmed, seeks compensation, and may be directed at parties other than the offender. A family can be involved in both, one, or neither, and the existence of one does not determine the other's outcome.

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Claims against a platform are a distinct question

Whether a platform can be held liable for harm arising through its service is a contested legal question rather than a settled one, and it turns on the theory pleaded, the facts, and the law of the jurisdiction. A coordinated federal proceeding concerning alleged child sexual exploitation and assault involving one gaming platform is pending in the Northern District of California. It is a proceeding, not a finding — nothing in it has established liability.

  • Criminal case — government against an offender, seeks punishment
  • Civil claim — seeks compensation, may involve other parties
  • Claims against a platform raise separate, contested legal questions
  • Coordination of federal cases is procedure, not a finding
  • Limitation periods here vary unusually widely by state
  • Individual facts decide any individual claim

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Why the deadline question is different here

Most areas of law have limitation periods that vary somewhat between states. For childhood sexual abuse claims the variation is far greater, and a number of states have enacted provisions reviving claims that had previously expired. Because of that, a claim a family assumes is long out of time may not be, and one they assume is fine may not be. No figure appears on this site; the point is to ask early and locally.

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What a civil claim would involve

Realistically: professional evaluation of the facts, records from several sources, and a process that takes a long time and asks difficult things of the person harmed. It can also provide compensation and a measure of accountability that a criminal case does not. Both sides of that belong in the decision, and a lawyer who describes only one of them is not helping you weigh it.

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When this may not fit a lawsuit

Many genuine harms do not produce a viable civil claim — because the responsible person cannot be identified, because no defendant has the means to pay, because the legal theory is not available in that jurisdiction, or because the evidence does not support the required elements. Being told that is disappointing and it is not a judgment about what happened.

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The child's own position

Claims on behalf of a minor involve additional protections — who may bring the claim, how the child's interests are safeguarded, and what court involvement any resolution may require. These vary by state. So does the question of what a young person would personally have to participate in, which is worth asking about early because it affects whether a family wants to proceed at all.

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Advertising deserves particular skepticism here

Where a coordinated proceeding exists, advertising follows. Treat any promise of an outcome, any statement that a child already qualifies, or any request for payment upfront to pursue a recovery as reasons to stop. The general guidance on verifying legal solicitations applies here with more force than usual, because the families being approached are at their most vulnerable.

FAQ

Frequently asked questions

Do we have to choose between a criminal case and a civil claim?

No. They are separate tracks with different parties and purposes, and a family may be involved in both. Reporting to law enforcement does not prevent a civil claim, and pursuing a civil claim does not replace an investigation. Sequence matters, though — reporting should not wait for a legal consultation.

Is it too late if this happened years ago?

Do not assume so. Limitation periods for childhood sexual abuse claims vary widely between states and several states have enacted revival provisions for previously expired claims. Because the answer is genuinely state-specific and can be counterintuitive, it is worth asking a lawyer in the relevant state rather than concluding anything.

Would my child have to testify?

It depends on the case, the stage, and the jurisdiction, and it is one of the most important questions to ask early. Many matters resolve without a young person testifying, and some do not. A family is entitled to understand what participation might involve before deciding whether to proceed.

Official forms and preparation tools

Get organized before you file or ask for help.

Use the preparation aids to collect information. Always obtain legal forms from the court or agency that controls them.

Preparation resourcesThis is a preparation aid, not a legal document. Nothing here is filed with a court or agency, nothing here is legal advice, and completing it does not establish that you have a claim, a defense, or an obligation. Use it to organize your own information so a conversation with a licensed attorney is more productive.
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Exposure and product history worksheet

Assembles the product, dose, and exposure detail that screening turns on, before anyone asks for it under a deadline.

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How to use it

  1. Work from records rather than memory wherever a record exists
  2. Write 'unknown' rather than guessing; guesses become sworn answers later
  3. Note the source of each fact, so it can be verified
  4. Keep this with your preserved product and photographs

Identify the product precisely

Brand alone is frequently insufficient, because litigation is usually defined around specific versions and periods.

  • Brand or common name as you know it
  • Manufacturer, if shown on packaging or records
  • Model, formulation, strength, or version
  • Lot, batch, serial, or reference number
  • Where photographs of these markings are stored

Use or exposure period

  • First date of use or exposure, and how you know
  • Last date of use or exposure
  • Frequency, dose, or duration
  • Any interruptions, switches, or changes in version
  • Who prescribed, installed, sold, or supplied it

Where the exposure happened

  • Home addresses during the relevant period
  • Employers, job titles, and worksites
  • Specific buildings, facilities, or areas
  • Water source, if relevant
  • Anyone else exposed in the same setting

Records that could confirm it

  • Pharmacy dispensing history and which pharmacies
  • Operative report, implant card, or device sticker
  • Purchase records, receipts, or online order history
  • Insurance claim history
  • Employment or personnel records
Limitations

This does not determine whether you qualify for anything

It is not a claim form and is not submitted to anyone

Completing it does not preserve any filing deadline

It is not legal advice and creates no attorney-client relationship

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Medical treatment timeline

Builds the dated medical sequence that causation analysis depends on, including the history that predates the exposure.

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How to use it

  1. Start earlier than feels relevant; pre-exposure history matters
  2. Record dates, providers, and what was said or diagnosed
  3. Mark where a record exists and where you are relying on memory
  4. Request complete charts rather than summaries

Before the exposure

Alternative explanations are the central defense argument, so this section is not optional.

  • Existing conditions and when they were diagnosed
  • Medications taken and for how long
  • Relevant family history
  • Prior injuries to the same body system

During the exposure period

  • Routine visits and what was noted
  • Any symptom you reported, and to whom
  • Tests, imaging, or lab work performed
  • Changes in dose, version, or work assignment

Onset and diagnosis

The last item can matter to filing deadlines in states applying a discovery rule. Record it factually rather than shaping it.

  • When symptoms first appeared, as precisely as you can
  • When you first sought care for them
  • Date of diagnosis and the diagnosing provider
  • When you first connected the injury to the product or exposure

Treatment and effect

  • Procedures, hospitalizations, and ongoing treatment
  • Providers, with contact details
  • Time away from work and lost income
  • Activities you can no longer do that you previously could
Limitations

This is preparation, not a medical or legal opinion

It does not establish that any product caused any injury

It does not preserve a filing deadline

Records govern where memory and this timeline disagree

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Evidence preservation checklist

Prevents the accidental loss of product and record evidence in the weeks when most of it disappears.

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How to use it

  1. Do the photography step today; everything else can follow
  2. Do not clean, repair, return, or discard the item
  3. Store the item somewhere stable and note where it is
  4. Record the date of every preservation step you take

The physical item

  • Product, device components, or remaining material kept unaltered
  • Packaging, labels, inserts, and any recall notice
  • Photographs of every marking, from multiple angles
  • A note of where the item is stored and who has access

Documents to request now

Third parties are slow and retention policies are not written with your claim in mind.

  • Complete medical charts, not summaries
  • Pharmacy dispensing history from every pharmacy used
  • Operative reports and implant documentation
  • Employment or personnel records for exposure periods
  • Purchase records, receipts, and order history

Digital records people lose

Do not delete anything relevant, including material that seems unhelpful.

  • Online order and delivery history, exported or captured
  • Loyalty or pharmacy account records
  • Photographs with original timestamps preserved
  • Messages referring to the product or symptoms

Your own account

  • A dated written narrative of use and symptoms
  • Names and contact details for anyone who observed the use or the injury
  • A note of any conversation with a manufacturer, retailer, or insurer
  • Copies of anything you have already signed
Limitations

Preservation does not create a claim or preserve a filing deadline

This is not legal advice about what evidence a claim would require

It does not tell you whether any litigation applies to your situation

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Mass tort consultation worksheet

Turns an intake call into an assessment by fixing what you know, what you have, and what you need answered.

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How to use it

  1. Complete the first three sections before the call
  2. Read the question list aloud rather than trusting recall
  3. Write the answers down during the call, including who gave them
  4. Do not sign anything during the first conversation unless a deadline requires it

What you can establish

  • Product identification, and how you can prove it
  • Use or exposure period, and the supporting record
  • Diagnosis, and the record establishing it
  • When you first connected the two

What you have already done

  • Whether the product is preserved, and where
  • Which records you have requested and which have arrived
  • Whether you have spoken with, or signed with, any other firm
  • Anything already signed with a manufacturer, retailer, or insurer

What you verified independently

  • Whether a federal proceeding appears in the Judicial Panel's own listing
  • Whether an agency has published a recall or safety communication
  • The licensing record of the attorney you are speaking with
  • The date you checked each source

Questions to ask

  • Are you an attorney, and which firm is responsible for my claim?
  • Would my case be referred to another firm?
  • What deadline applies to a claim like mine, and where does it come from?
  • What in my facts would you want to see before assessing this?
  • What is the fee, and does it change by stage?
  • Are costs deducted before or after the fee, and do I owe them if there is no recovery?
  • Could a common benefit assessment apply, and who resolves liens?
  • Who is my day-to-day contact, and how will I hear about deadlines?

Before you end the call

  • What the next step is, and who takes it
  • What you should avoid doing in the meantime
  • What you are being asked to sign, and whether you can take it away
  • What happens if you decline a proposed resolution later
Limitations

This does not evaluate your claim or establish eligibility

It is not submitted to anyone and collects no information about you

Completing it does not create an attorney-client relationship

It does not preserve any filing deadline

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Advertising and solicitation verification checklist

A short verification routine to run before responding to any advertisement or unsolicited contact about litigation.

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How to use it

  1. Run this before providing any personal or medical information
  2. Record the date of each check and what you found
  3. Stop and seek independent advice if any item fails
  4. Keep this record with anything you are asked to sign

Does the proceeding exist

  • Checked the Judicial Panel's own pending MDL listing
  • Checked the responsible agency for a recall or safety communication
  • Asked the firm where the proceeding is and what its docket is
  • Noted any mismatch between the advertisement and official sources

Who is contacting you

  • Confirmed whether the caller is an attorney
  • Looked up the attorney's licensing record and status
  • Confirmed the individual named on any agreement matches
  • Asked which firm would be responsible and whether the case would be referred

Warning signs to check for

The Federal Trade Commission describes upfront payment demands — framed as retainer, processing, administrative, tax, or handling charges — as a recurring recovery-scam pattern, and advises never paying upfront to obtain a recovery.

  • Any request for payment upfront to pursue a recovery
  • A guarantee of approval, payment, or a specific amount
  • A statement that you have already been approved
  • Pressure to sign immediately without an explained deadline
  • Claims of influence over a court, agency, or program
  • Knowledge of medical details you never shared publicly

Before you provide anything

  • Asked for all material in writing
  • Declined to confirm medical details to an unsolicited caller
  • Taken any agreement away to read rather than signing on the call
  • Considered speaking with a second firm
Limitations

Passing every check does not mean you have a claim or that a firm is right for you

Failing a check does not by itself establish that anything unlawful occurred

This collects no information and is not submitted to anyone

It is not legal advice about any specific solicitation

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Social media use and impact timeline

Records what changed and when, in a form a professional can use, without requiring a family to hand over private content up front.

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How to use it

  1. Record dates and observations, not screenshots or message content
  2. Include what was happening in your child's life more broadly, not only online
  3. Note where records exist rather than copying them into this document
  4. Keep it private and access-controlled; this concerns a minor
  5. Where age and circumstances allow, involve your child in what is recorded

Use history

Record which and when. Do not paste message content into this document.

  • Which platforms were used, and roughly from when
  • Approximate ages at first use of each
  • Any change in how much time was spent, and when you noticed
  • Whether an account data export has been requested
  • Where devices and account information are now kept

What changed, and when

  • Sleep, appetite, school attendance, or grades
  • Withdrawal from activities or friendships previously enjoyed
  • Mood changes you observed, with approximate dates
  • When you first became concerned, and what prompted it
  • What you tried, and what happened

Help sought

  • First conversation with a clinician, school, or counselor
  • Diagnoses discussed, and by whom
  • Treatment started, changed, or stopped, with dates
  • Whether records have been requested from each provider

Everything else happening at the time

This section feels counterproductive and is essential. Alternative explanations are the central defense, and a professional needs them to assess anything honestly.

  • Family changes — moves, separation, bereavement, illness
  • School changes, bullying, or academic pressure
  • Prior mental health history in your child or family
  • Other stressors during the same period
Limitations

This is preparation, not a claim, a medical record, or a submission to anyone

Completing it does not indicate that a claim exists or that anything caused anything

It does not preserve any filing deadline

It is not clinical advice; if your child is struggling, care comes first

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Minor privacy protection checklist

A short routine to run before handing a child's records to anyone, so disclosure is a decision rather than a default.

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How to use it

  1. Run this before uploading or emailing anything about your child
  2. Ask the three questions in the first section every time
  3. Record what you disclosed, to whom, and when
  4. Store preserved material somewhere access-controlled

The three questions, every time

  • Who will see this — the firm, an expert, the other side, the court, the public record?
  • What happens to it afterwards — retained, returned, or destroyed?
  • Is there a narrower version that answers the same question?

Before using a firm's intake portal

  • Asked what happens to uploads if you do not engage the firm
  • Asked who inside the firm can access the material
  • Asked whether it is retained, and for how long
  • Decided whether to wait until after engaging them

Questions for counsel about court handling

Availability varies by court and proceeding. Ask rather than assume in either direction.

  • What protections exist for a minor's identity in this proceeding?
  • What becomes part of a public record?
  • Can sensitive records be handled under a protective arrangement?
  • What court involvement does a minor's claim or settlement require here?

Handling material at home

  • Stored somewhere access-controlled rather than a shared drive
  • Not circulated in family group chats
  • Not posted publicly or shared with media or support groups
  • A record kept of what was disclosed, to whom, and when

Your child's involvement

Being overruled about private material can itself be harmful. This is a genuine consideration, not a formality.

  • Considered whether your child should know what is being shared
  • Where age and circumstances allow, discussed it with them
  • Noted any material they have asked not to be shared
Limitations

Running this checklist does not create any legal protection for the material

It does not determine what must be produced in a legal proceeding

It collects no information and is not submitted to anyone

It is not legal advice about disclosure obligations

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Social media claim consultation worksheet

Prepares a family for a first meeting and fixes the questions that separate a real assessment from an intake script.

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How to use it

  1. Complete the first two sections before the meeting
  2. Read the questions aloud rather than trusting recall
  3. Write down the answers, including who gave them
  4. Do not sign anything in the room unless a deadline genuinely requires it

What you can describe

  • A dated summary of what changed and when
  • Which platforms were used and roughly when
  • What clinical help was sought, and when
  • What records you already hold
  • What has been preserved, and where it is

What you verified independently

  • Whether the proceeding described appears on the court's own page
  • The licensing record of the attorney you are speaking with
  • Whether the firm is the one that would be responsible
  • The date you checked each

Questions about the claim

  • What makes this claim difficult?
  • What evidence would strengthen it, and what is missing?
  • What do you expect the defense to argue?
  • What happens if the evidence does not develop as hoped?

Questions about the minor's position

  • How do you handle a minor claimant's records and privacy?
  • What court involvement does a minor's claim or settlement require here?
  • What would my child personally have to participate in?
  • What becomes part of a public record?

Questions about the firm and the money

  • Which firm is responsible, and would this be referred elsewhere?
  • Does the percentage change by stage?
  • Are costs deducted before or after the fee is calculated?
  • Do we owe advanced costs if there is no recovery?
  • Who resolves any reimbursement or lien issue?

Before you leave

  • What the next step is, and who takes it
  • What you should avoid doing in the meantime
  • What you are being asked to sign, and whether you can take it away
Limitations

This does not evaluate a claim or establish that one exists

It is not submitted to anyone and collects no information about your family

Completing it creates no attorney-client relationship

It does not preserve any filing deadline

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Online harm reporting routes

A routing reference for a caregiver who needs to report online harm to a child, and a record of what was reported and when.

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How to use it

  1. If a child is in immediate danger, contact emergency services first
  2. Report to law enforcement and the national reporting center — do not wait for a lawyer
  3. Record what you reported, to whom, and when
  4. Do not collect, copy, or forward explicit material involving a child
  5. Keep the account and device intact rather than deleting them

Where to report

The national reporting center reviews each report and makes it available to the appropriate law-enforcement agency for possible investigation.

  • Emergency services, if a child is in immediate danger
  • The national reporting center's CyberTipline, online or by telephone, available at all hours
  • A local FBI field office, its telephone line, or its online tips portal
  • Local law enforcement
  • The platform's own reporting route — in addition to, never instead of, the above

What to record about each report

  • Date and time the report was made
  • Which body or platform received it
  • Any reference or case number given
  • Who you spoke to, if anyone
  • What you were told would happen next

What to preserve

Preserve access, not content. Do not open, copy, or store explicit material involving a child — report it and let investigators handle it.

  • The account — do not delete or deactivate before asking
  • The device — do not wipe, reset, or trade it in
  • Usernames and approximate dates involved
  • Any platform response or reference number

Support alongside reporting

Federal caregiver guidance is explicit that victims are not at fault and that a caregiver's first move should be to help.

  • Clinical support for the child, which is separate from any legal question
  • Telling the child plainly that they are not in trouble
  • Support for the caregiver, which is frequently overlooked
Limitations

This is a routing reference, not a report, and completing it reports nothing to anyone

It is not an evidence-collection tool and must not be used as one

It does not create, preserve, or evaluate any legal claim

It does not preserve any filing deadline

It is not legal or clinical advice

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Game account and purchase record checklist

Assembles the billing and account information a refund request, a regulator complaint, or a consultation will ask for.

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How to use it

  1. Work from statements and account pages rather than memory
  2. Record dates, amounts, and references — not conversation content
  3. Keep a copy of every refund request and the response
  4. Change spending and payment settings before anything recurs

The charges

  • Date and amount of each disputed charge
  • Which account the charges came from
  • The payment method used, and whether it was stored on the account
  • Whether charges were a single event or spread over time
  • The card or bank statement lines showing them

The account

  • Account holder name and username
  • Whether the account belongs to an adult or a child
  • Whether a linked parent account exists
  • Which parental controls were active, and when they changed
  • Whether spending notifications were enabled

What you have already tried

These are separate routes with separate rules. A refusal from one does not decide the others.

  • Platform refund request — date, reference, and outcome
  • App store or payment provider request — date and outcome
  • Card issuer or bank dispute — date and outcome
  • Any reason given for a refusal

Preventing a repeat

Platform controls are described in each company's own published material and change. Check the current settings for the service you use.

  • Stored payment methods removed
  • Purchase authentication required
  • Spending notifications turned on
  • Screen time and content settings reviewed
Limitations

This does not create any entitlement to a refund

Refund rules are set by platforms, payment providers, and card networks and differ

It is not submitted to anyone and collects no information about your family

It is not legal advice, and it does not address safety concerns — those have their own route

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