The essentials
Understanding estate planning
A plan has two halves that people tend to conflate. The lifetime half handles incapacity: who manages money and property, and who makes health care decisions, if you cannot. The after-death half handles transfer: who receives property, who administers the estate, and who raises minor children. A plan that covers only the second half leaves the more likely scenario unaddressed.
How property actually passes surprises people. Assets with a named beneficiary — retirement accounts, life insurance, and some bank or investment accounts — generally pass to that person regardless of what a will says. Property owned jointly may pass automatically to the surviving owner. What remains is what a will directs, and that portion is what typically moves through probate, the court process for administering an estate.
Requirements are set by state law, and they are formal. Signing, witnessing, and notarization requirements for wills and directives vary by state, and a document that is valid in one state may raise questions in another. The National Institute on Aging notes for health care directives that witnessing or notarization rules differ by state and that forms should be read closely — the same caution applies across the rest of a plan.
Situations this area may cover
A first plan for a young family
Naming a guardian for minor children, choosing who manages money for them, and putting decision-making documents in place. Often the highest-value planning relative to its complexity.
Updating after a life change
Marriage, divorce, a birth, a death, a move to another state, or a significant change in assets are all reasons to revisit a plan and its beneficiary designations.
Planning for incapacity
A durable power of attorney for finances and a health care directive determine who acts if you cannot. Without them, a court proceeding may be required to appoint someone.
Blended families and unequal distributions
Providing for a current spouse and children from a prior relationship, or treating heirs differently, requires precise drafting and often a conversation about what will happen after you are gone.
Caring for a family member with a disability
Leaving assets directly to someone receiving needs-based benefits can jeopardize those benefits. Specialized planning exists for exactly this situation.
Administering an estate after a death
The person named to administer an estate has real legal duties: locating assets, notifying creditors, paying valid claims and taxes, and distributing what remains under court supervision where required.
General roadmap
What the process may look like
- 01
Inventory what you own and how it is titled
Title and beneficiary designations control the outcome for much of a typical estate, so planning starts with an accurate list of accounts, property, and how each is held.
- 02
Decide who will act
Choose an executor or personal representative, an agent for finances, a health care agent, and a guardian for minor children — with alternates. Willingness and reliability usually matter more than closeness.
- 03
Choose the structure
For many people a will plus decision-making documents is sufficient. A trust may be added to manage property for beneficiaries, to plan for incapacity, or to avoid probate where the state's process makes that worthwhile.
- 04
Sign with the required formalities
Execution rules — witnesses, notarization, and sometimes specific language — are set by state law and are where do-it-yourself documents most often fail.
- 05
Align beneficiary designations and titles
A plan is only complete when account designations and deeds match its intent. This step is skipped constantly and is the most common reason a plan does not do what its owner expected.
- 06
Store, share, and revisit
Documents that nobody can find do not work. Tell the people you named where the originals are, give health care agents copies, and review after major life changes or a move to another state.
- 07
Administration after a death
The named representative opens any required court proceeding, gathers assets, gives notice to creditors, pays valid claims and taxes, and distributes the remainder. Timelines and requirements are set by state law.
Probate procedures, small-estate shortcuts, and required forms differ substantially by state and often by county.
Prepare without over-sharing
Documents and information to gather
What you own and owe
An accurate inventory makes every later decision faster and cheaper, and it is a gift to whoever administers the estate.
- Deeds and property tax statements
- Account statements showing how each account is titled
- Life insurance policies and retirement account information
- Business ownership documents and loan agreements
Existing documents
A new plan should be built with knowledge of what already exists, including documents you may have forgotten.
- Any prior will, trust, or codicil
- Existing powers of attorney and health care directives
- Prenuptial or postnuptial agreements
- Divorce judgments containing ongoing obligations
Beneficiary designations
These frequently control more property than the will does, and they are often years out of date.
- Current designation forms for retirement accounts
- Life insurance beneficiary confirmations
- Payable-on-death or transfer-on-death designations
People and wishes
Decisions about people are the part only you can supply, and they are worth thinking through before the meeting.
- Full legal names and contact details for those you would name
- Guardian preferences for minor children, with alternates
- Notes on health care wishes and any specific instructions
- Any charitable intentions
Official forms and preparation tools
Get organized before you file or ask for help.
Use the preparation aids to collect information. Always obtain legal forms from the court or agency that controls them.
inventoryAsset and beneficiary inventory
Records what you own, how each asset is titled, and who is currently named on it — the three facts a plan depends on.
Open checklist
How to use it
- Record how each asset is titled, not only that you own it
- Pull each beneficiary designation from the institution rather than from memory
- Note contingent beneficiaries as well as primary ones
- Use approximate values; completeness matters more than precision
- Do not write passwords or account credentials into this list
- Date it, and re-date it whenever you review
Accounts with beneficiary designations
These generally control the asset regardless of what a will says, which is why they are listed first.
- Retirement accounts — provider, primary and contingent beneficiary, date checked
- Life insurance and annuities — insurer, beneficiary, date checked
- Payable-on-death or transfer-on-death arrangements
- Any employer benefit with a death benefit
Property and how it is held
- Real property — address, and exactly how the deed holds title
- Vehicles, boats, and anything with a title document
- Bank and investment accounts — institution and how titled
- Business interests and ownership documents
- Meaningful personal property and where it is
Debts and obligations
An estate pays valid debts before distributing, so a list of assets alone overstates what a plan can deliver.
- Mortgages and secured loans
- Credit balances and personal loans
- Anything you co-signed for someone else
- Ongoing obligations from a divorce judgment
Digital and access information
Note where credentials are secured. Do not write them here.
- Email and cloud accounts, and where access information is secured
- Financial accounts that exist only online
- Digital currency or tokenized assets
- Subscriptions and recurring payments
People and advisers
- Attorney, accountant, and financial adviser contacts
- Full legal names of anyone you would name in a role
- Where original documents are stored, and who can reach them
This is preparation, not a will, trust, or beneficiary change
Completing it changes nothing about who inherits
It does not determine whether an asset passes through probate
It is not legal advice and creates no attorney-client relationship
worksheetEstate plan document locator
Records where every document lives and who can reach it, so a plan does not fail because nobody could find it.
Open checklist
How to use it
- Complete it after signing, not years later
- Give a copy to the people you named in each role
- Record access, not just location — a box nobody can open is no better than nothing
- Update it whenever a document or a named person changes
Where the originals are
- Will — location and who has access
- Trust and any amendments
- Durable power of attorney for finances
- Health care directive, and who holds copies
- Deeds, titles, and insurance policies
Who was named, and do they know
Record whether each person has actually been asked and knows where documents are kept.
- Executor or personal representative, plus alternate
- Trustee, plus successor
- Financial agent under the power of attorney
- Health care agent, plus alternate
- Guardian for minor children, plus alternate
Institutions and advisers
- Attorney who prepared the documents
- Accountant and financial adviser
- Banks, brokerages, and insurers
- Employer benefits contact
Access notes
Record where access information is kept. Do not write credentials into this document.
- Safe deposit box location and who is authorized
- Where a home safe key or combination is secured
- Where digital access information is secured
This is a locator, not a legal document, and it does not direct anything
It does not substitute for signing documents with the formalities your state requires
It is not legal advice
worksheetEstate planning consultation worksheet
Turns a first planning meeting into a specific recommendation instead of a general conversation.
Open checklist
How to use it
- Decide the people before the meeting; that is the part only you can do
- Bring the asset inventory and current beneficiary designations
- Bring any existing documents, however old
- Write the scope questions down and record the answers
Your situation
- Family structure, including any prior marriages and stepchildren
- Minor children or dependants
- Anyone with a disability or receiving needs-based benefits
- Property in more than one state
- A business interest
- Anyone you expect to object to your intentions
People you would name
Ask each person before naming them.
- Executor or personal representative, and an alternate
- Trustee, if a trust is used, and a successor
- Financial agent under a power of attorney
- Health care agent, and an alternate
- Guardian for minor children, and an alternate
Scope questions to ask
- Which documents does the fee include?
- Is trust funding included, and who performs it?
- Will you review my beneficiary designations?
- What does a simple amendment cost later?
- What happens if I move to another state?
- Why do you recommend this structure for my situation specifically?
Before you leave
- What the next step is, and who takes it
- What documents you still need to provide
- When drafts will arrive and how signing will work
- If a trust is involved, how you will know funding is complete
This does not create any document or change any beneficiary
It does not determine which structure is right for you
It creates no attorney-client relationship
checklistAfter a death: first steps checklist
Separates what is genuinely urgent in the first weeks from what can and should wait for advice.
Open checklist
How to use it
- Work through the urgent column first; the rest can wait days or weeks
- Start a dated log of every call and account discovered
- Do not take anything from the 'wait' list until you have advice
- Keep every document you receive, including mail you do not understand
Do now
The Social Security Administration states the funeral director usually reports the death once given the person's Social Security number; a death cannot be reported online.
- Secure the home, vehicles, valuables, and pets
- Order certified copies of the death certificate
- Confirm the death was reported to Social Security
- Notify employers, insurers, and benefit providers
- Redirect or collect mail so nothing is missed
Find, do not act
- Any will, trust, or codicil
- Funeral or burial instructions
- Insurance policies and benefit statements
- A list of accounts, advisers, or a document locator
- Recent tax returns and account statements
Wait for advice
These feel like helpful tidying and can create personal exposure, particularly if the estate cannot pay everything it owes.
- Distributing personal property to family members
- Closing accounts or transferring anything
- Paying debts, especially from your own money
- Cashing or depositing checks payable to the person who died
- Selling a vehicle, a home, or anything of value
Start a log
- Every account discovered, with institution and approximate balance
- Every call made — date, person, and what was said
- Every document received, and when
- Every expense you pay personally, with receipts
This does not open an estate or establish anyone's authority to act
It does not determine whether a probate proceeding is required
It is not legal advice and does not address any state's specific procedures
logExecutor task and expense log
Keeps the contemporaneous record a representative needs to account for the estate and to be reimbursed.
Open checklist
How to use it
- Record entries as they happen, not from memory later
- Keep estate money in an estate account, never in your own
- Attach or reference a document for every entry
- Record expenses you advance personally, with receipts, for reimbursement
Assets located
- Institution, account or asset description, and date discovered
- Value as of the date of death, and the statement that shows it
- How the asset is titled, and any beneficiary named
- Whether it appears to pass inside or outside the estate
Claims and bills received
State law determines the order claims are paid. Record what arrives; take advice before paying where the estate may be short.
- Creditor, amount claimed, and date received
- Whether the claim appears valid and how you assessed it
- Date paid, or reason not paid yet
- Any notice given and when
Expenses
- Court and publication charges
- Certified copies, postage, and travel
- Appraisal, accounting, and professional fees
- Anything you advanced personally, with the receipt
Communications and decisions
- Date, person, organization, and what was said
- Requests from beneficiaries and how you responded
- Advice received, from whom, and when
- Any decision you made and the reason for it
Distributions
Distribution generally comes after debts, taxes, and any claim period. Record the sequence.
- Recipient, what was distributed, and date
- Authority relied on — will provision or statute
- Receipt or acknowledgement obtained
This is a private record, not a court accounting, and does not satisfy any filing requirement
Keeping it does not authorize you to act for an estate
It does not determine which claims are valid or in what order they are paid
It is not legal advice
worksheetProbate consultation worksheet
Establishes what the estate contains and how it is held, so a first meeting can answer whether a proceeding is even required.
Open checklist
How to use it
- Complete the asset section first; the analysis follows from it
- Bring the will, death certificates, and date-of-death statements
- Flag anything unusual honestly — a possible insolvency, a likely dispute
- Record the answers, including who gave them
The estate
- State and county where the person lived
- Whether a will was found, and where it is
- Assets, and how each is titled
- Which assets name a beneficiary
- Approximate total value, and how much is real property
- Known debts, and whether they may exceed assets
The people
- Who is named as executor, and any alternate
- Who the beneficiaries or heirs are
- Anyone who cannot be located
- Anyone who has expressed an objection
Questions to ask
- Is a full proceeding required, or does a simplified procedure apply here?
- What claim or notice period applies in this state?
- Which fee framework applies to probate work here?
- What will the estate pay in total, roughly?
- What should I avoid doing in the meantime?
- What do you need from me, and by when?
Before you leave
- Whether anything is time-sensitive
- Who opens the estate account, and when
- What tax filings the estate will owe
- Who your day-to-day contact is
This does not open a proceeding or establish authority to act
It does not determine whether probate is required; that is legal analysis
It creates no attorney-client relationship
Federal · Internal Revenue ServiceSS-4 — Application for Employer Identification Number
Obtains the taxpayer identification number an estate uses as a separate taxpayer from the person who died.
Form guide
SS-4 — Application for Employer Identification Number
Obtains the taxpayer identification number an estate uses as a separate taxpayer from the person who died.
A personal representative administering an estate that will file a return or open an estate bank account.
Early in administration, because an estate bank account and any estate tax filing depend on having the number.
- The deceased person's full legal name and taxpayer identification number
- Date of death
- The representative's name and role
- The estate's mailing address
What the sections ask for
Section explanations describe what a form is asking for in ordinary language. They are not instructions about what any individual should write, and they do not replace the official instructions published with the form.
Identifies that the application is for an estate rather than a business, which changes how the number is issued and used.
Asks who is acting for the estate. This is the representative, not the person who died.
Asks why the number is needed — typically that an estate is being administered.
Common mistakes
- Using the deceased person's Social Security number for estate accounts
- Applying before confirming who has authority to act for the estate
- Listing the deceased person rather than the representative as responsible party
Last source check: 2026-08-20 · awaiting attorney review
Federal · Internal Revenue Service1041 — U.S. Income Tax Return for Estates and Trusts
Reports income the estate itself earns after the death, separately from the deceased person's final individual return.
Form guide
1041 — U.S. Income Tax Return for Estates and Trusts
Reports income the estate itself earns after the death, separately from the deceased person's final individual return.
A personal representative of an estate whose annual gross income exceeds the threshold the IRS publishes.
For each tax year the estate remains open and meets the filing requirement.
- The estate's employer identification number
- Income received by the estate after the date of death
- Deductible administration expenses
- Amounts distributed to beneficiaries during the year
What the sections ask for
Section explanations describe what a form is asking for in ordinary language. They are not instructions about what any individual should write, and they do not replace the official instructions published with the form.
Covers what the estate earned after death — interest, dividends, rent — not the deceased person's earnings before it.
Covers costs of administering the estate that the rules allow to be deducted.
Where income passed through to beneficiaries is reported, which affects whether the estate or the beneficiary is taxed on it.
Common mistakes
- Confusing this return with the deceased person's final individual income tax return
- Confusing it with the federal estate tax return, which is a transfer tax
- Filing without the estate's own identification number
- Overlooking a separate state filing obligation
Last source check: 2026-08-20 · awaiting attorney review
Federal · Internal Revenue Service706 — United States Estate (and Generation-Skipping Transfer) Tax Return
Reports and computes federal estate tax, and is also the return used to elect portability of a deceased spousal unused exclusion.
Form guide
706 — United States Estate (and Generation-Skipping Transfer) Tax Return
Reports and computes federal estate tax, and is also the return used to elect portability of a deceased spousal unused exclusion.
The executor of an estate where the gross estate plus adjusted taxable gifts and specific exemption exceeds the basic exclusion amount for the year of death — or any executor electing portability for a surviving spouse, regardless of estate size.
Only for larger estates, or where a portability election is being made. Most estates never file it.
- A complete inventory with date-of-death values
- Appraisals for real property, business interests, and unusual assets
- Records of lifetime taxable gifts
- Details of any prior spousal exclusion available
What the sections ask for
Section explanations describe what a form is asking for in ordinary language. They are not instructions about what any individual should write, and they do not replace the official instructions published with the form.
A series of schedules covering categories of property — real estate, securities, jointly held property, and others — valued as of the date of death.
Covers debts, administration expenses, and transfers that reduce the taxable estate, such as amounts passing to a surviving spouse or to charity.
Where an executor elects to transfer a deceased spouse's unused exclusion to the surviving spouse. This is the reason some estates file despite owing no tax.
Common mistakes
- Assuming no filing is needed without checking whether a portability election is worthwhile
- Valuing assets at something other than date-of-death value
- Overlooking lifetime taxable gifts
- Confusing this transfer tax return with the estate's income tax return
Last source check: 2026-08-20 · awaiting attorney review
California · Judicial Council of CaliforniaDE-111 — Petition for Probate
Asks a California court to begin the process of distributing a deceased person's property, paying debts owed, and settling their financial affairs.
Form guide
DE-111 — Petition for Probate
Asks a California court to begin the process of distributing a deceased person's property, paying debts owed, and settling their financial affairs.
A petitioner opening a probate case in California. Every other state has its own forms and its own procedure; this is not a national form.
At the start of a California probate case, filed in the county where the person lived — or, if they lived outside California, in the California county where they owned property.
- The deceased person's legal name, date of death, and county of residence
- The original will, if one exists
- Names and addresses of heirs and beneficiaries
- An approximate value of the estate and what it consists of
- Who is asking to be appointed and on what basis
What the sections ask for
Section explanations describe what a form is asking for in ordinary language. They are not instructions about what any individual should write, and they do not replace the official instructions published with the form.
Identifies what is being asked for — probate of a will, appointment of a representative, or both — and who is asking to serve.
Establishes identity, date of death, and residence, which is what determines the correct county.
Describes what the estate consists of and its approximate value, which affects the procedure and the notice required.
Identifies everyone entitled to notice. Omitting someone entitled to notice is a common reason a hearing is delayed.
Common mistakes
- Filing in the wrong county
- Omitting an heir or beneficiary entitled to notice
- Filing a full petition where a simplified transfer procedure would have applied
- Overlooking the county's own local rules and required local forms
Last source check: 2026-08-20 · awaiting attorney review
Use your consultation well
Questions to ask an attorney
Given my situation, which documents do I actually need?
Why it matters: A recommendation should follow from your family, property, and goals — not from a package everyone is sold.
Do I need a trust, or would a will and directives be enough?
Why it matters: Trusts solve specific problems well and cost more to create and maintain. You should hear the case for both.
How will my beneficiary designations interact with this plan?
Why it matters: Designations often override a will. Misalignment is the most common planning failure.
What does probate look like in this state, and is avoiding it worth it here?
Why it matters: The cost and burden of probate vary widely by state, and so does the value of planning around it.
What happens if I move to another state?
Why it matters: Execution requirements and property rules differ. Knowing what would need revisiting saves a later scramble.
What is included in the fee, and what would future updates cost?
Why it matters: Plans need maintenance. Knowing the cost of amendments up front prevents documents from going stale.
Who should hold the originals, and who needs copies?
Why it matters: Documents nobody can locate at the moment they are needed do not function.
Is there anything about my family situation that makes this harder?
Why it matters: Blended families, a beneficiary receiving benefits, or an expected dispute all change the drafting.
Understand the agreement
Fees and costs
Flat fee for a document package
The most common approach for planning work: a set amount covers drafting and execution of a defined set of documents.
Questions worth asking
- Exactly which documents are included
- Whether the signing meeting and witnesses are included
- Whether funding a trust — retitling assets into it — is included
Hourly billing
Used for complex planning, business interests, or disputes, where the scope cannot be fixed in advance.
Questions worth asking
- An estimated range and what would change it
- Which staff members bill to the matter
Estate administration fees
Fees for administering an estate after a death may be hourly, flat, or — in some states — governed by statute or court approval, and they are typically paid from the estate.
Questions worth asking
- How fees are calculated in that state
- Which costs are separate, such as court filing and publication fees
Update and maintenance arrangements
Some firms offer periodic review or a defined amendment cost. Others charge for each change as it arises.
Questions worth asking
- What triggers a recommended review
- The cost of a simple amendment later
No prices appear here. Estate work varies too much by complexity and state for a published figure to be honest.
Protect your options
Common mistakes and better next steps
Leaving beneficiary designations unchanged after a divorce, death, or birth
Review every designation whenever a plan is created or a family change occurs. These often control the asset regardless of what the will says.
Creating a trust and never transferring assets into it
Ask directly who is responsible for funding the trust and confirm each transfer is completed. An unfunded trust does very little.
Signing without meeting the state's formalities
Follow witnessing and notarization requirements exactly. Requirements vary by state and defective signing is a common reason documents are challenged.
Naming a person for the wrong reason
Choose executors and agents for reliability, availability, and willingness. Birth order and feelings are not qualifications, and it is fair to ask first.
Leaving assets outright to someone who receives needs-based benefits
Raise the situation specifically. Planning tools exist to provide for a person without disrupting benefit eligibility.
Storing the only original somewhere nobody can reach
Tell the people you named where documents are kept and make sure they can actually access them when needed.
When prompt local help may matter
- A serious diagnosis, an upcoming procedure, or declining capacity
- A family member can no longer manage finances and no power of attorney exists
- A death has occurred and someone must act on the estate
- A deadline in a probate or trust administration is approaching
- A move to another state, or property acquired in a second state
- A dispute is brewing among family members over an existing plan
Capacity matters: documents generally must be signed while a person still understands what they are signing. Waiting until after that point usually means a court proceeding instead.
Choices and terminology
Decisions you may face
Will-based plan or trust-based plan
A will-based plan costs less and is simpler to maintain, and it typically means the estate passes through probate. A trust-based plan costs more up front and requires diligent funding, and it can streamline administration, provide for management over time, and keep terms more private.
Online forms or a lawyer
Form documents are inexpensive and can suit very simple situations. They do not catch state-specific execution requirements, beneficiary misalignment, blended-family issues, or benefits planning — and the errors surface when the person who could explain their intent is unavailable.
Name a family member or a professional to serve
A family member knows the situation and usually serves without a fee. A professional brings neutrality and administrative experience at a cost, which can be worth it where conflict is likely or the estate is complex.
Key terms
Will
A document directing who receives property that passes through your estate, and naming a representative and any guardian for minor children.
Trust
An arrangement in which a trustee holds and manages property under written terms for named beneficiaries.
Probate
The court-supervised process of administering an estate. Procedures and cost vary widely by state.
Executor or personal representative
The person responsible for administering an estate after a death.
Durable power of attorney
A document authorizing someone to act on financial or legal matters, which continues to operate if you become incapacitated.
Advance directive
Health care instructions that take effect when you cannot communicate decisions, commonly a living will and a durable power of attorney for health care.
Beneficiary designation
The instruction attached to an account or policy naming who receives it, which usually operates outside a will.
Intestate
Dying without a valid will, in which case state law determines who inherits.
Plain-language answers
Frequently asked questions
Do I need a will if I do not own much?
A will does more than divide property. It names who administers your estate and, for parents of minor children, states your preference for a guardian — which is often the most important thing in the document. If you have no will, state intestacy law determines who inherits, and that outcome may not match what you would have chosen, particularly in blended families or unmarried partnerships.
What is the difference between a will and a trust?
A will directs property that passes through your estate and takes effect at death, usually with court involvement through probate. A trust is created during life, holds property under written terms, and can continue managing that property for beneficiaries. Trusts cost more to set up and require assets to actually be transferred into them, so the honest comparison depends on your state's probate process and on whether ongoing management is needed.
Are online estate planning documents valid?
A properly executed document can be valid regardless of where the template came from, and execution formalities are exactly where form documents tend to fail — signing, witnessing, and notarization requirements differ by state. The other risk is subtler: a form cannot tell you that your retirement beneficiary designation contradicts your will, or that leaving assets outright to a family member will disrupt their benefits.
What are advance directives and do I need one?
The National Institute on Aging describes the two most common health care advance directives as a living will, which records the treatment you would or would not want, and a durable power of attorney for health care, which names a person to make health decisions if you cannot communicate. They take effect only when you are unable to speak for yourself. Witnessing and notarization requirements vary by state, so read the form's instructions closely.
How often should a plan be reviewed?
Life events matter more than the calendar. Marriage, divorce, a birth or death, a move to another state, a significant change in assets, or a change in who you want to serve are all reasons to revisit both the documents and the beneficiary designations. A periodic look every few years catches what life events do not.
Does everything have to go through probate?
No. Property with a valid beneficiary designation, property held jointly with survivorship rights, and property already in a trust generally pass outside probate. What remains is what a will directs. Many states also provide simplified procedures for smaller estates, so how much probate matters in practice depends heavily on your state and how your assets are titled.
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Important limitation
Lawyer in Town publishes general legal information for consumers. It is not legal advice, it does not create an attorney-client relationship, and it cannot account for the facts of any individual situation. Laws, court procedures, filing deadlines, and outcomes differ by state and by court, and they change over time. Confirm anything that affects a decision with a lawyer licensed in the relevant jurisdiction.
Wills, trusts, directives, and probate are governed by state law. Execution formalities, spousal rights, probate procedures, small-estate shortcuts, and administration deadlines differ by state and often by county. Federal law is relevant chiefly to retirement accounts and federal transfer taxes.